Right Husband Kaisa Hona Chahiye: Every girl wants her future husband to have good qualities so that the married life remains happy. A young woman asked Premanand ji that what qualities should be looked for in a man while looking for a life partner? What questions should be asked to the life partner?
People go to Vrindavan’s famous saint Premanand ji Maharaj to know the solution to their many problems. Premanand Maharaj answers many questions like mental confusion, some thought stuck in mind or troubling, how to attain God with great ease. People like this and try to follow it. One such young woman asked Premanand ji Maharaj that how can one choose the right husband for marriage? Another young man asked that which questions are right to ask the life partner before marriage? Premanand Maharaj answered both the questions in such a way that the confusion of both the persons’ minds got resolved.
How to choose the right husband for marriage?
Every young woman has a desire that her husband should be good. A young woman asked Premanand Maharaj that while looking for a life partner, what are the qualities that should be seen in a man, so that our married life remains happy, balanced and prosperous? On this question, Premanand Maharaj said that he believes that one should pray to God to give him a restrained and pious life partner because nowadays all the boys and girls are becoming adulterous. The wish to get a pious and pious life partner will be fulfilled only when you are pious and restrained. You are well behaved and gentle.
If we are impure and wish for a pious husband, it is impossible
Premanand Maharaj further said that if we remain impure and wish for a pious husband, then it is impossible. Describing the episode of Ramayana, he said that Sita ji worships Maa Gauri and asks her to give us a suitable groom. The day Sita ji saw Ram ji, she went to worship Amba ji, then Amba ji happily said that go, the groom you had thought of and the one you have seen today, the same dark handsome man will be your groom.
This is how you get a handsome groom
Premanand Maharaj said that you get a handsome groom by the grace of Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati. Keep a fast on Monday for the grace of Goddess Gauri and Shiva. Ask God to give you a handsome, well behaved and holy groom. He will arrange it for you somewhere in the universe.
What questions should be asked to the life partner before marriage?
A young man asked Premanand Maharaj that what questions should be asked to the life partner before marriage so that we can know whether he/she is compatible with us or not? On this question, Premanand Maharaj said that what will happen by asking questions? If you ask a question and someone gives the wrong answer, will you accept it?
We asked you whether you are celibate? Have you never accepted anyone? So you said no, we have never accepted anyone. So the other person can also lie. If in today’s time you ask whether you are pure, then you will remain a doubt throughout your life. Therefore, first you are pure. First make yourself celibate. After that pray to God that O Nath! Give me such a life partner who will take me to you according to the religion. May he help me attain God.
